What to expect at your first AA meeting

Before you go

• Pick an open or beginners meeting. Open meetings welcome anyone. Some groups also hold beginners meetings, which go slower and are made for people who are new.
• Arrive a few minutes early. Most meetings start on time. Getting there early gives you time to find the room and pick a seat where you feel comfortable.
• Bring nothing but yourself. There is no sign-up, no fee and nothing to fill in. Nobody needs your last name.

What usually happens

• A short opening. Someone chairs the meeting and reads a welcome. Many groups also read a short passage or the Twelve Steps.
• Introductions. People may introduce themselves by first name. You can say you are new, or simply pass.
• Sharing. A speaker tells their story, or members take turns talking about a topic. You never have to speak.
• The basket. A basket may go around for voluntary contributions toward rent and coffee. Newcomers are never expected to give.
• Staying after. People often stick around to talk. Someone may offer you a phone list, so you have people to call between meetings.

After your first meeting

Many people try a few different meetings before one feels right, because every group has its own feel. Going back is what matters.

Between meetings, SobrCircle helps you count your days, check in, and keep the people you meet close in your circle.

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